The Availability Awards eBook


Why We Fall for Emotionally Unavailable Men and How to Stop Getting Heartbroken

Step into the spotlight for the most entertaining education in modern dating. This witty, insightful eBook reveals the recurring characters who steal the show in your love life and teaches you how to give the next award to someone actually ready for real relationship

This is for smart women ready to see patterns clearly, choose better, and celebrate emotional growth.

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Modern dating can feel like emotional improv: a cast of familiar characters, overused scripts, and plot twists.

  • They flirt, text, vanish and call it going with the flow.
  • They come on strong and then disappear, as if nothing.
  • They show their potential but not the ability to be a partner.
  • They create chemistry but skip long term compatibility

You start wondering if healthy love is even possible in a modern dating world where dating apps globally encourage flaky, insincere, and self-centered relationships.

The Availability Awards exists because these dating patterns are everywhere: the charming ones, the hot-and-cold ones, and the ones that feel real until reality requires effort.

The sad truth is this: most unhealthy relationship began with emotional unavailability, made worse, by the lack of emotional & relational intelligence.

This book gives you language, laughter, and the lessons to stop available with emotionally available so that you can protect your heart from unnecessary heartbreak. 

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A Sneak Peek Inside
The Availability Awards

Meet a few of the infamous contestants from inside the book 
There are 16 contestants competing for The Availability Award 🏆 

Page 29: Meet Mr. My "Friend"
Why he's not actually a friend and gets in the way of moving on

Page 41: Mr. Not Single
Why he's not actually available, despite what he says when it's complicated

Page 109: Mr. Wrecking Ball
Why the chemistry first approach is often self betrayal in disguise

Page 151: Mr. Memories
The emotional ghost of past loves that resurface in the present.

Page 167: Mr. DÊjà vu
Find out why he's so familiar
and why it's a problem

Page 213: Mr. Unspoken Vow
Why falling in love with your best friend can become an epic fail

Read the full lineup inside The Availability Awards 
and see which ones you’ve already dated.

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See the Patterns. Change the Story. Choose Healthy Love.

The Availability Awards eBook
 370 pages of storytelling and unforgettable drama

Bonus 1: Judges’ Scorecard
Rate, reflect, and reclaim your power in love to evolve your standards

Bonus 2: The Unreleased Chapter
A surprise chapter around subtle control and how to recognize manipulation.

Bonus 3: Relationship Ready Scorecard
This covers 15 qualities of someone who can have healthy happy love.

Bonus 4: Emotional Availability Guide
20 traits to help you see who is & is not emotionally available as a partner

Bonus 5: Ask Author Anything
Send the author one dating question via email for a personal response.

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If you don't read


❌ Accepting casual relationships and "going with the flow" hoping it leads to a serious relationship

❌ Feeling anxious, worried, and afraid of losing them, when they have red flags and toxic behavior

❌ Deleting parts of yourself, downplaying wants, & denying valid needs to have a chance at love

❌ Falling for who you want them to be, instead of who they actually are

By not reading, you could be one swipe, one match, one date away to give someone a chance who didn't deserve it because they were emotionally unavailable, before you met them. This part of why there's so much suffering, pain, & heartbreak.

If you do read


✅ Confidently spotting emotional unavailability before you fall in love and get attached to them


✅ Feeling capable of protecting your heart from those who are incapable of being a serious partner


✅ Choosing people who act with integrity, who create safety, trust, show genuine care, & respect 


✅ Attracting a like minded partner who knows how to create and keep healthy love long term


You are self empowered to act from a place of wisdom, maturity, and confidence to eliminate those who are not ready to co-create healthy love and put yourself on the path to finding the one who are truly long term partner material. 

You can keep hoping they’ll be ready or
start choosing the ones who are ready.

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"Like other millennials, I too, was on the quest to find love. Swipe after swipe and match after match, I went on the rollercoaster that is modern dating. When things didn't work out, I'd feel hurt, when yet another match wasn't the one. 

Beyond my experiences, this book is in some ways the culmination of combining thousands of love stories. I've turned them into types people to avoid, as they don't lead to healthy love, that lasts.

For the last 5 years, I went from reading about love to teaching it in online small groups, and I realized just how much I had grown in my own healing journey along the way.

My deepest hope is that by reading this book:

  • You know you're not alone,
  • You're not to blame, and
  • You don't have to grieve alone  

As you search for healthy mutual love, this book is a companion guide to keep you laughing 😆 and learning 🤓 on what not to do."

Alexandra Velez (Author of The Availability Awards)

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Ninety days from now, you’ll scroll through your messages with calm instead of confusion. You’ll recognize effort without anxiety. You’ll feel emotionally safe because you understand what availability looks like.

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