This book is for single women who feel stuck in confusing dating patterns, especially if you tend to overthink, attract emotionally unavailable partners, or feel anxious waiting for clarity.

It’s not therapy, but it is designed to help you understand your attachment style and make dating feel calmer, clearer, and more secure.

Absolutely. Even if you’re not single, you’ll gain insight into emotional availability and communication patterns, skills that strengthen any relationship. The principles apply whether you’re dating, in a situationship, or working through a recent breakup.

Absolutely. Try The Availability Awards for 30 days. If you don’t feel more clear, confident, and emotionally grounded, you’ll receive a full refund, no fine print, no guilt.

You can finish it in 7 days, reading 20 to 30 minutes per day.

Yes, because awareness creates different choices. This book is about seeing clearly enough to stop settling for less than mutual, healthy love. 

Emotionally unavailable partners train you to over-give, overthink, and doubt your worth. You can't feel safe, cared for, secure with them; it undermines your mental health.

Time, effort, love won't reverse the consequences of being with someone who is emotionally unwell.

Choosing emotional availability isn’t about perfection; it’s about having a solid foundation for emotional health, which carries over into relationship success.

Most of the time trial and error leads to painful lessons that sometimes send you the wrong message. It's easy to blame yourself, beat yourself up, or strenthen insecurities. 

The emotional comfort zone means emotional habits replay on loop. Bad behaviors become "normal" or "just how it is." 

Sadly, for some women, they go decades of trial and error, without knowing these things and think they're just unlucky in love, unlovable, or unattractive.

It doesn't have to be that way. This one life is precious. Love is infinitely sweeter when it's healthy.