Love Pattern Masterclass
Follow your yellow brick road to secure love
Are you tired of mixed messages, casual “situationships,” and heartbreak that never seems to add up?
In this live workshop, we’ll peel back the curtain (yes, Wizard of Oz style) to reveal why emotionally unavailable types feel so magnetic, and what truly separates insecure love from secure connection.
If you’ve been stuck in a repeating pattern, this is your chance to finally see the bigger picture and start rewriting it.
Save My Spot
This workshop is for you if:
Untangling from past patterns is tricky when it's normal, second nature, or there are real blindspots. If you identify as someone who feels anxious when it comes to love, then you may relate to the following scenarios:
You overthink, self betray or people please in dating
You keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners
You know your attachment style, but don’t know how to change it
You’re exhausted by casual relationships and crave healthy love
You have spent years (or decades) with the wrong people
You want a secure, emotionally healthy love of your own
What you will learn
This masterclass takes you behind the curtain,
untangles the confusion, and points you toward secure love.

Unlock
You will unlock clarity around how emotional unavailability looks like in the modern dating experience.

Understand
You will deepen your understanding of what secure vs insecure love looks like to reach relationship goals.

Upskill
You will learn how to upskill your beliefs, habits, and choices so that you can get on the path to experience healthy love.
Meet your host
I’m Alexandra Velez, a behavior designer and founder of My Secure Era.
After years of studying psychology, neuroscience, and behavior design, I’ve created a system that helps people finally make sense of their repeating love patterns and build secure, healthy connections.
I designed this masterclass to be playful, memorable, and practical because love shouldn’t feel like decoding a journey you have to figure out solo.
If you’ve been stuck in the same cycle, I’ll show you why it happens and how to start rewriting your path.

The next step is yours
Rewrite your love story with intention
This masterclass will give you the clarity you’ve been missing and a path forward you can finally trust.
Join the Love Pattern Masterclass and take the first step toward secure, lasting love.
Seats are limited. Save yours now.
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